*Disclaimer* I don’t even know this girl.
So I’m at this party. Girls are everywhere, in short dresses, breast up, bum cocked. You know how it goes. And amidst all the figure revealing, almost transparent, invisible fabrics, is this beautiful girl, dressed casually. Standing beside, who obviously is a family member, no clique, not being befriended by a million and one dudes. Just enjoying herself. Well, I must admit right away, my mind started asking all these questions, “Who is this girl? I know I’ve seen her before… What does she read? What does she do? Where does she work? What would she declare if she was center stage, world stage?” Taken back, and also intoxicated due to ingesting a Smirnoff, Corona, and Heineken with only a donut and as Shi says, a cold tea in my stomach, I couldn’t help but observe her. Looking back now, which might have been a little creepy for her. *rookz shudders*
The point of the story is, I found her, on facebook and decided to just add her. Not with the intention of, well, lol, you read my blog, I don’t do so well with romance. But just because her presence alone shifted my frame of mind in that environment for those moments I was thinking about her. And that in itself, is worth taking a chance and friend requesting her at risk of being punked, and now also realizing she probably thinks I have a staring problem and if this were the 3rd grade she would have told me so. Lol, anyway, I checked out a few pics on FB, and saw her playing ball, she’s a photographer, seems to be family oriented, all that family channel wonderfulness I love. But this picture… this picture made me smile, a silent smile.
It’s refreshing to know, a woman like this exist. Not in script, but right here in my own city. And I’m not suggesting for a second she is without flaw, but we all have some, it’s what we do outside our flaws.
“Helping others never goes out of style.” Really it doesn’t.
P.S. I know that was random, and def a rant, but I had to get it out. And this does not mean I’m trying to holler. Just appreciating, people do enough hating.
P.S.+ Did I mention she wrote a book?! A BOOK! http://LaidTheBook.com SUPPORT!